We were broken into again yesterday. It's been 18 months since the last time and this time the little bastards kicked in the laundry door. Shane discovered it this time as he beat me home but I was the one who rang the police and I was nearly hysterical, as at the same time I was wondering around the house trying to work out what was missing. And of course they took all my gold jewellery again.
They stole all 3 of my cameras. One is my first digital camera, a Ricoh, that I was trying to sell, so no loss. One was the new Canon Powershot that we'd only bought last year while my camera was in the shop, so we called it Shane's camera and it had an SD card in it. I can't remember what photos were on it though. But they also stole my really good, expensive Canon Camera and an SD card that had lots of photos on it and those I do remember. I took some of the girls last week dressed up alike and got copies printed directly off the card for the Mums for Mothers Day. I have 2 copies myself, so now I am keeping them instead of sending them to someone as I don't have the originals anymore.
I'm devastated. And I'm awake at 5.20am as it has just occurred to me that we don't have anyone housesitting for us when we go away in 3 weeks for our wedding. The laundry door needs fixing but I don't think they'll replace it and Charlie said there's nothing we can do to stop them kicking it in again. And how do I advertise for a housesitter while saying, look, I'd prefer someone who doesn't work and can be home all the time to make sure the house is safe? We can't stop it happening while we live here, so I will be worried about it the whole time we're away.
Shane spent nearly all last night outside, pondering what to do and stressing over it. He wants to put flatbars on the frame from the inside to stop them getting the door open but the frame around the door is so old too that it will probably just splinter if they try hard enough, as the house is so old. I suggested tech-screwing the crappy screen door shut from the outside but we have to keep the door accessible in case of a fire. So what do we do?
I know I feel like I never want to leave the house again. Today is my shopping day and my brilliant Mum has taken the day off to come and sit with the girls while I race up and get food and buy birthday presents for 2 parties we're going to on the weekend. But I'm not going to the family one now, I'd rather stay home by myself and have Shane take the girls to his family's do, especially as I yelled at Cheryl while Shane was on the phone with her. I am very angry with her as I have been making steps to get our contents insured in the last couple of months and told her she needs to come over to do it, as we can't get it in our names while in her house. But of course she keeps leaving it and it wasn't done. I'm blaming her but it's just because I'm upset.
The worse is knowing they were in our house, they saw what we look like from all the photos, they were in our little girls rooms and took them apart too and they probably don't feel any remorse. Where they've touched clothes, I've put them in the wash coz I can't bear to wear them until they're clean. And none of us touched our toothbrushes last night, I'm going to buy all new ones. I just hate that our private personal space has been violated.
I've now advertised on Facebook but the one girl on there who does it is due to have a baby and probably won't be able to. I won't be able to enjoy my own wedding if I'm stressing over our house. I hate this.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
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Wednesday, November 18, 2009
The Book Thief with Pride...
My picture this post is of the iconic Elizabeth Bennett and Mr Darcy. I really didn't like the Hollywood film version of this movie with Kiera Knightley. Not when you've seen the BBC version above, with Colin First and Jennifer Ehle. It's about 6 hours long and it's just a beautiful movie. They are appropriately subdued, as you imagine the English gentry to be, and the scenery and filming are just stunning. I have seen it hundreds of times, and I'm not joking!
So I shall check in again on this story, once we've met on 24 January, Jo's birthday, so discuss why we love this book. As I already know I do. So much. TTFN.
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Monday, November 2, 2009
The Reader and The Book Thief
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Friday, October 23, 2009
Waiting for the When.
I don't feel there is any point spending money on nice furniture when the girls are small and spill food and drink on it all, when Saxon as a dodgy bladder and wees on everything and when we are just going to have to pay to move it all to Gero when we do go, rather than buy it when we get there and leave our current crap behind at the dump.
We desperately need a new bed. I've had our current base with slats under the mattress since I was in Perth and it's old and rickety now. The slats move and the mattress is so bad I have almost a constant backache. Going to the chiropractor does no good. I want to upgrade our next bed to a King Size and I don't see the point of getting one now as it will not fit in our bedroom. Let alone a whole new bedroom suite and actual wardrobes to match. So we'll buy a new mattress and hope that will cover us until we do move.
Last year we got a new fridge, knowing a new baby was on the way and we'd need the room. This month we bought new IKEA shelving for our CDs and DVDs. And unfortunately, as fantastic as they are, they just make our other old furniture look worse.
We've bought an investment property in Geraldton; settlement was just yesterday. This makes me feel like we are finally adults and are taking care of things financially. Yet we are tearing our hair out over finding a decent tenant to go in the house. The stress is unsurmountable. I keep thinking I must ring the property manager, then I just ignore it because I can't handle dealing with it. We have life insurance but Shane doesn't even have a will.
So I feel like for nearly 5 years now, I've been putting everything on hold, waiting for When. And as you can see above, I have plenty of excuses why. Like my wedding dress, common sense overrules what I really want. Because what I really want is to move to Geraldton now and be with my sister, knowing my parents will soon follow and I can't do that. That would mean doing without Shane as he would then have to do fly-in, fly-out work; the money's just too good. And I can't do without him.
So I balance it. I justify why I go without now with what is yet to come, and buy small, crappy things to make do, hoping to God I get the chance to do the big things later. Funnily enough, with refinancing my unit, we actually have the money there to be able to do these things too. Am I just in a rut? Because this rut has been gnawing at me for 4 and a half years.
I feel like I live my life waiting for the When to happen. I'm 37 next year. When is my life actually going to start? When will I have the nice house, room to scrap, and a comfortable lounge and bed? A big kitchen with a dishwasher and beautiful patio area? Built in robes, going to the movies and coffee with my sister and big family Christmases without 40 degree temperatures? Contentment and achievement in my life? When?
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Friday, October 2, 2009
Dresses done and Invitations to think of.
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Saturday, September 26, 2009
The Wedding Dress post. Just one, I promise.
Okay. I am going to write this now and then not mention it again. I myself am OVER hearing myself talk about it, let alone think and stress about it, so this blog is the place to vent and tell all, then leave it be.
What do you think? Nice huh? Now for the killer. I know I set a budget and that it shouldn't matter if you just LOVE a dress but the problem with this little number is that it was about 4 inches too long. And I knew I would not be wearing massively high heels at my own wedding because I wanted to enjoy the day and not be in pain. And because the lace overlay (the doily part) was so intricate and hemmed about the bottom, it would have needed a professional dressmaker to alter it and would have cost over $500. Debbie was the dressmaker/tailor at the shop and she would have done this for me, increasing the cost of the dress to $1950. Added to that is the fact that I would have had to return to Perth to get the dress fitted again before the wedding once the alterations had been done. Now on the day I thought that this might have been impossible, although Shane has since assured me it would have been okay, and workable. It had cost me $360 to fly down this time and I was lucky to get that so cheap; I would have been unlikely to pay less than $500 to fly down again in the future, let alone the trouble of getting Mum to have a day off to watch the girls during the week and Shane managing them over the weekend, which involved a lot of prepping beforehand by me!
So I started to sweat, thinking that my beautiful dress was going to cost me in the realm of about $2500. And beautiful as it was, I knew deep down inside that although I would look great and love it on the day, come the next day I would be stuck with an extremely expensive dress that I might be lucky to get $200 bucks for. The common-sense part of my brain started to take over the dress-loving part of my brain... And the winner? Try on more dresses.
I continued with a couple and then referred to an electric blue bridesmaids gown we'd picked out. I'd seen this on the website and loved it, especially as it only cost $330 and in my still-in-hedland, not-yet-seen-any-white-dresses frame of mind, it was perfectly what I wanted. So I put this gown on and Wow! We had another freakout; it looked so nice on me. I needed to have some of the cleavage stitched over as I showed a bit too much, but you could see this would be easily done and the colour looked amazing on me. But not bridal enough. The next decision was, white? Or gold? I tried on both and Lisa and Ani decided gold was the one. I wasn't convinced either way but apparently the gold looked better with my colouring.
As you can see in the background of the photo, there is a cupboard of tiaras, feathers, combs, hats and whatnots to choose from and next to that a big array of veils. We immediately found an elbow-length veil that was gold with a silver wave along the bottom (matching my beach theme) and Lisa attached it with a little tiara. I hated this immediately as I was looking for something different, like a flower or little hat. Ani and I sussed it out and found in a box a bamboo and ribbon fascinator coloured gold and black. We put this to one side of where the veil was attached at my crown and VOILA! The look was complete.
The dress had to be ordered in my size and colour so I won't get that til Xmas and I brought the veil, $190 and fascinator, $60, home with me on the plane. And the next day I was lucky enough to find the most gorgeous black long-sleeved Alannah Hill cardigan with embroidered flowers on it that would be perfect to give me the warmth I would need over the dress during the after-ceremony, before-reception travels and whatnot. Let alone the fact that this cardigan is so gorgeous I would live in it otherwise, $200 bucks or not.
Now all I need it a black pair of shoes (and I have heaps of them) and my outfit is done. So far I am at $799 for my 4 purchases and am really happy with them. Well I was until I got home and suffered an agonising few days of indecision and whether I'd done the right thing. I was torn up inside, had a good cry and decided to forget about it til tomorrow. The next day, I rang Legends and was told, changing my mind or not, the gold dress was mine and I could order the other but my deposit could not be changed over. And that made my mind up for me. There. Enough.
My sister is excited about my decision as this means her bridesmaids dress can be black. Then all we need is a black waistcoat for the best man and a gold one for Shane and the wedding party is done. Black and gold doesn't really go with my beach theme but my colours are gold (sand) and blue (sea) so at least the golds will match. Plus I think the room would POP a bit more with blue accents throughout the white tablecloths and gold sashes and whatnot, rather than black which could look a bit dank. Hmm, not sure. It's hard as I can't organise centrepieces and things from afar, this is something I'll need to do in Geraldton at a later date.
Anyway, this is my dress journey. I am glad to share it. I have been told by a few people that I will only get married once and I need to get the dress I love, but I know myself too well and I think I would regret spending so much money on one thing, when that much would go towards so many other items that would make our wedding day so special. TTFN.
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